Making a Mistake
No one likes to make a mistake, but they inevitably happen to us all. As adults we need to be careful how we handle mistakes in front of children. They see everything and take note of so much more than we realize. I make mistakes all the time in front of my students, but I try to teach them that mistakes happen and we shouldn't get upset when they happen but instead we should learn from them. Stickley Makes a Mistake A Frog's Guide to Trying Again by Brenda S. Miles is a great resource to help children learn about making mistakes and what to do after they happen.
Stickley Makes a Mistake is about a young frog names Stickley who hates to make mistakes. When Stickley makes a mistake he does not want to try again because he wants to be perfect. Stickley's grandpa however teaches him that it is ok to make mistakes you just have to stick with it and try again. Grandpa also teaches Stickley that it is ok to ask for help if you need it. The book shows Stickley make several mistakes but he learns from them and doesn't let them hold him back.
My assistant teacher and I are constantly cleaning up spilled milk, wiping crayon and marker marks off the tables, and cleaning up after a million other messes daily because we try to teach our students to be independent and take care of their own needs and when preschool students learn to do things themselves they can make a mess. What my assistant and I try to be mindful of when cleaning up these messes is how we react to the situation. Our students are watching what we do to learn how to deal with mistakes.
When a student spills milk and then immediately try's to hand me the milk carton to finish opening it for them. I am doing them no favors by getting upset over spilled milk and then completing the task for them, but when I show them that it is ok if we spill milk we just clean it up and try again. If students need help I will help them when they try again. So if a student needs help opening their milk, I can take my own milk carton and model the correct way to open it by showing them the arrows on the top that show where to open it, then pushing the edges back and pinching the top to pull it open. Not only have I just taught a lesson on how to open milk, but I have helped a student to learn that its ok to make mistakes and then to try something again. Hopefully the next time that the student comes to a roadblock or mistake they will learn that it is ok to try and if they fail to try again!




















